Fear-Envy-Hate Poem

Fear.

Fear is being afraid of losing something precious

Fear & Envy always lead to Hate

Hate is a product of Fear;So is Envy

Envy is the Fear of not getting your fair share

Fear of not getting your fair share always ends in Envy; Envy is an expression of Hate

Conclusion: To Hate another is the same as to Fear another. Fear is being afraid that someone else will be better off than you. To want something that someone else has that you don't is having Envy. In contrast: A healthy respect for another is a healthy envy of another.

How to handle a player hater?

How do I defeat/handle a Hater? I gain other poeple’s Respect by having Self-Respect.  It’s really that simple! You must build self-confidence. Haters are insecure and egotistical people.  Haters foolishly think that they can climb to the top of the food-chain via hatred!  Haters usually pick a vulnerable target to fuel a senseless MOB!  This is how hatred can form a MOB RULE!  All a hater requires to start a Mob Rule is a lie…no truth required.  Haters are fueled by lies…haters fear the TRUTH!  This is why you must always be true to yourself.  Never give in to Mob Rule.  The truth shall set you free!
So how again do I handle a hater?  By outdoing them. Be victorious! Be a Champ! The best way you can gain some R.E.S.P.E.C.T. is by preserving your own Dignity & Self-Worth! Don’t allow anyone to try to take your dignity away from you. That’s what I do. Gain Respect by promoting Self-Respect.  And don’t forget to be humble.  First you must able to give respect in order to get respect back from others.  As long as you protect your own dignity…haters have no choice but to grant you the respect you so deserve!
People hate me for 1 of many things but the most common is: I’m Asian. I’m eccentric. I’m ugly. I posses something better than them. Or I have something they don’t.
Of course it bothers me…but that’s how humans are. You must always remind yourself that the Human Race is simply 1 big dancing heap of shit across the world. Keep in Mind that they are merely cattle>>A Cow[ard]Conforming to whatever their weak-minded peers conform too.  Con-form means to be without form…haters are unable to think for themselves so they succumb to other thoughts to fill their empty minds!  Meaningful thought requires meaningful effort…otherwise…your thoughts remain pathetically meaningless.  In a nutshell…you should always think for yourself!
The reason for conforming to their peers(thereby leading to hating a subculture/subclass)? A possibility of either 1 of 2 choices: fear or envy. It’s as simple as that.
I for one, Don’t hate the world and it’s people. I simply pity their existence. Wasting their lives hating a race, hating a social class; going on with their monotonous lives continuing to persecute the very people who try to work hard to make their world a better place for everyone to co-exist in.
No matter who hates you, somewhere along the line you have something they don’t.
Either: 1)a Heart of Gold-you are a soldier for love and compassion.  A winner always listens to their heart.
        2)you have self-respect: a passion to do what you love while at the same time remaining true to yourself. You possess true diligence(u r a truth-seeker).
        3)you are victorious/a champion - you have  succeeded against all odds.
        4)a Gift - maybe they can’t play the guitar quite like you can.
        5)or simply  you have a loved one that cherishes you unconditionally.(shouldn’t they get a cat or dog too perhaps?)
I have no tolerance for hatred…and so shouldn’t you.  Hatred Hath No Place in my Household.  Hatred begets more hatred. A rather pointless cycle.  Just like the movie ‘The Grudge’.
Hate is akin to being on a hamster wheel…all that wasted effort…all for nothing…hatred does not create anything beautiful.  Hatred can only lead to a destructive heart.  Hatred burns everything it touches!
Right now it’s 18Nov2010 & I feel the whole world hates me. Me. Just only Me, Myself & I…out of everyone in the world. Moi. But it’s all kosher. This world is my playground! In this concrete jungle:  We are all fucking fair game. I have the right to do whatever I wish.  Wherever. Whenever.
Our governmental laws were designed & enforced by only the Few;primarily for selfish gains…thereby enslaving the many.
And yes being hated is much the same as being alone. To know that someone out there really hates your guts - only makes the cut run deeper. But sooner rather than later:  All of you shall wake up one day to find out that no matter how many times you tell people to, “Back.  The.  Fuck.  OFF!!!”  They still won’t listen.
You wouldn’t feel so all alone if in fact those haters ever cared about your feelings instead of treating you like a throw-away friend. The Sad truth is - that it’s a dog eat dog world out here!
It’s funny how everyone seems to lecture you while believing that they are really there to help you…when truth be told>>>it’s nothing more than a half-ass routine run-of-the-mill type of advice that you already possess.
It’s also funny how they try to compliment you in a passive-aggressive sort of competitive fashion.
 And their “tuff love” back-of-the-bus lectures>>>is like having my cup of joe 1/2 full.  Even more so>>>their comments are more 1/2 empty than 1/2 full!
If someone hates you:  heh.  No big deal. Who needs them anyways, right?  Remember to always turn you’re frown upside down…okay!  Dignity comes from within…nobody can take that away from you unless you let them.  Cheers!
-mark magill